One for the Guys - Choosing the First Date Venue

So you’ve been chatting to a girl for a few days now and it’s going well – nice work! You’ve finally plucked up the courage to ask her out on a date… she says “yes!” What now?! If you haven’t thought that far ahead, then our Guide to the First Date Venue is here to help.

Golden Rule

Remember – getting dropped off at the cinema by your parents was fine for those girls in high school, but you’re a little too old for that now. Don’t pick somewhere busy or where you can’t actually talk for two hours because that’s just awkward – go for friendly and intimate. Laser Quest is more of a second date thing.

Let’s consider the options:

Meal

 

Going out for a meal can be fraught with danger, so make sure you really give it some thought. Try to find out what kind of food she likes – or doesn’t like! You don’t want to be whisking her off to the cute Thai restaurant in town if she’s a chicken ‘n’ chips kind of gal!  Similarly, you might want to avoid the local curry house if she’s averse to spicy food. Maybe play it safe with a lovely little Italian (hella romantic) or head out of town to the quaint little gastro pub by the canal. Also, consider any post-meal shenanigans before munching down on a three-course feast… remember the rules… never swim on a full stomach ;)

 

Drinks

Meeting for drinks might seem like the boring option, but that’s where you can really give the venue some thought. There are a wide variety of bars and pubs to choose from, so maybe steer clear of the local Whetherspoon – unless there’s a game on, of course! If the weather is a little cooler, then nothing beats a cosy country pub with a roaring fire, hot chocolate and big comfy chairs. For those brief summer months, find yourself a snazzy bar with outside seating and enjoy cocktails and nibbles in the glorious sunshine.

Sports & Activities

 

Wow, you’re feeling brave! You’ve decided that the usual first date routines are too mainstream and instead, you’re feeling adventurous. Maybe it’s not quite time to introduce the potential ‘Mrs. Right’ to your Dungeons & Dragons club just yet, but a nice walk (or bike ride) in the park will give you plenty of time to talk.

 

Alternatively, you could pop down to the local crazy golf course, tennis courts or ten-pin bowling alley for some fun and friendly competition – just make sure you let her win! If there’s a local lake or river, boat rides are a definite first-date winner. We’re also a big fan of museums, art galleries and local music so check out what’s in your area and don’t be afraid to suggest something different. Just make sure you let her know in advance as it’s probably not too fun walking around for hours in 6-inch heels!

Don’t forget! Keep it convenient, fun and not too flashy – it’s all about originality and thoughtfulness… you stud.

Got Something in Mind?

 

Reward yourself with a beer! You’ve made your decision and you’re now nervously counting down the days. For help on choosing an outfit, check out our Pinterest board for some style tips. For a guide on how to behave, look at our Gentleman’sGuide to the First Date and you’ll be fine! Just stay calm and be yourself… and if you can’t do that, be Ryan Gosling.

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